About Us

We are here to support people when someone dies. We give clear information, so people know their choices and rights. With our guidance, people can look after themselves and feel more confident about what to do after someone’s last breath.


Our founders wanted to support people to stay close to the person who has died, in a place that feels right for them, and to be involved in arranging their burial or cremation. Listen to the founders here.

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Our Mission

Our mission is to help people in Scotland understand that they can take part in a meaningful way after someone dies and before the funeral.
We do this by
  • giving people clear information about what can happen between a person’s death and their funeral,
  • talking with people about how they want to be involved, and giving practical help,
  • helping people understand why the first three days after someone dies are important, and
  • building a group of volunteers to help with this work.

Our Charity

Pushing Up the Daisies became a charity in August 2016. Our details can be confirmed by OSCR. Our Charitable Objects are the relief of the newly bereaved during the period between a death and a funeral, the advancement of education in the care of bodies at home after death, and the advancement of health related to grief.

Being a member of the charity is a way of showing support for us. It also means you have voting rights at our general meetings and become a trustee. To become a member of the charity please return this form to admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.uk

Our Daisy Chain

Our Daisy Chain across Scotland is here to help. We can answer your questions, talk through your options, and support you in making informed choices. Find a member of our Daisy Chain in the map below.

We  would be very happy to welcome you into this growing movement.

Thank you for helping to cover the essential costs of our charity. Your donations help us keep our work going for people in Scotland and beyond.

If you pay tax in the UK, please think about filling in a Gift Aid form. This lets us claim an extra 25p for every £1 you give, and it doesn’t cost you anything extra.
Please email the completed form to admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.uk

Dietmar retired in 2022 from his post as Consultant in Anaesthesia and Pain Medicine in NHS Tayside. Dietmar is originally from Germany where he completed his medical training before moving to the UK. Having an interest in complementary medicine he is also trained in Acupuncture. Following his retirement he undertook training with Pushing Up the Daisies and became a Trustee of this charity a few months later. Throughout his career he always had an interest in death and dying and now having more time he enjoys having the opportunity to raise awareness and reduce the stigma around this topic.

In her mid-thirties Kate’s experiences of her beloved uncle dying at home led her to change course from working as engineer to nursing so that she could support people in their choice to die at home. With 20 years of nursing experience in the NHS and with Marie Curie, Kate now works privately with people who are dying and their families. In 2016 Kate was moved together with a group of woman in Moray to found Pushing Up the Daisies. She is currently a trustee of the charity and runs the educational initiatives which she created. 

Gerrie believes that Pushing Up the Daisies has identified a genuine need in Scotland (and beyond) at the time around death, dying and bereavement.  This has been her own passion since 2003 and she has worked with people as a celebrant, counsellor and end of life support for many years.  Gerrie is the Pastoral Care Lead with Celebrate People and has conducted around 1500 funerals over the years, as well as experienced grief and loss herself, which has given her insight into how that can affect individuals and families.

Gerrie has worked for NHS Scotland as an Advisor on involving people in their care, including Co Chair of the Spiritual Care Committee and in 2023 the Working Group on the Specialist Chaplaincy Workforce for the Spiritual Care Framework.

 She feels there is so much more we could do and is keen to explore what her best contribution could be.

Slow Down When Someone Dies

by Lin Carruthers and Kate Clark

Do the lights go out when someone dies? Are you in the dark about what to do when a person takes their last breath? This life-affirming guide encourages and enables you to explore the options for everyone involved.

It is currently available in paperback and eBook format. It is also available as a pdf by donation from admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.uk.

We are working on making it available in local bookshops in June 2023.

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This module helps you prepare for your Daisy Days in a way that cares for you and the people who matter most in your life. It explains who can legally make arrangements for you, how to get started, and what can influence the choices you make. It also supports gentle, thoughtful conversations and gives step‑by‑step guidance to help you write your “After My Last Breath” letter.

When you sign up, you will receive a link that allows you to:

  • watch the module video (about 30 minutes)
  • download the video transcript
  • download a helpful exercise
  • access other useful resources

The “Buy Module” button will take you to PayPal. You can pay using your PayPal account, or by credit or debit card as a guest. After paying, click the “Return to Seller” button at the bottom of the page. This will take you straight to the module webpage.

To be able to access the materials again in the future, you will need to save the module webpage address. This address is also shown in the Description section of your PayPal receipt. Once you are on the module webpage, you can enter your email address and the webpage link will be sent to you by email.

For further information contact admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.uk