Slow Down When Someone Dies

This book is a call to everyone, and particularly carers, to take time during the days after someone’s last breath to tend to their own longer term wellbeing. It contains inspiration to help people consider what’s right for them and all the practical information for them to be able to do what’s right for them when a significant person steps out of their life in a physical way.

It is currently available in paperback (£12) and eBook (£6) format. It is also available as a pdf, with an invitation to make a donation, from admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.uk.

We have included direct links to some sources below. Note that the book is currently taking about 2 weeks to arrive from Lulu. 

The book can be ordered through any UK bookshop except Waterstones. Apart from Yeadon’s of Elgin, delivery may be several weeks when ordered through a bookshop. Please let us know of any difficulties you have ordering the book.

Ideally we would like for bookshops and other shops in Scotland to stock the book so that people have easy access to the information. If you are able to help arrange for your local bookshop, or other shop, to stock the book please get in touch with Lin and Kate at office@slowdownwhensomeonedies.scot. 

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This way directly supports Pushing Up the Daisies with all the profit going to the charity. Includes £3 for post and packing. Allow 7 days to receive the book. Any queries contact us by email.

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Yeadon’s of Elgin will post out books to order – they only charge the postage in addition to £12 for the book. You can do it all by talking to a real person too by calling them on 01343 542411. This is a guaranteed way to directly support an independent bookshop in Scotland. 

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Slow Down When Someone Dies

by Lin Carruthers and Kate Clark

Do the lights go out when someone dies? Are you in the dark about what to do when a person takes their last breath? This life-affirming guide encourages and enables you to explore the options for everyone involved.

It is currently available in paperback and eBook format. It is also available as a pdf by donation from admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.uk.

We are working on making it available in local bookshops in June 2023.

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This module explores an approach to preparing for your Daisy Days which takes account of yourself and also those central to your life. It covers who can legally make arrangements for you, how to begin, the influences on decisions, explorative conversations, and gives step-by-step guidance to write your “After My Last Breath” letter.

You will receive a link to:

  • watch the module video (approx 30 mins)
  • download the video transcript
  • download an illuminating exercise
  • access other useful resources.

The “Buy Module” button below takes you to PayPal, where you can pay via your PayPal account or use a credit/debit card as a guest. Once you have paid, click on the “Return to Seller” button at the bottom of the page and you will be taken directly to the Module webpage.

To be able to access the materials in the future, you need to store the Module webpage address. Your PayPal receipt gives this address in the Description field. Once on the Module webpage you can give your email address to receive the webpage address by email too.

For further information contact admin@pushingupthedaisies.org.ukan