Next Online Course

All the course details and booking information are here. Booking closes 22 April 2024. Contact with any queries. We look forward to you joining us for a fascinating exploration of the Daisy Days. They could be the most important days of your life.

Our AGM Coming Up Soon

Another year, another AGM ……. everyone is invited to attend our next AGM coming up online on 27 February at 7:30pm where there will be a report on our activities and our accounts for the year ending 31 August 2023. Further information, documents and the link to join can be found here. Following the AGM … Read more

What can we learn from the Coffin Roads?

We are delighted that Professor Ian Bradley is joining us for our next online network gathering coming up on 27 February. Ian will share the extraordinary traditions around the coffin roads in the Highlands and islands of Scotland – ancient tracks along which bodies were carried on their way to remote graveyards. Ian Bradley is … Read more

Rights and Options Session Coming Up Soon

Join us for an online session where we will delve into our rights in Scotland; what we can expect at each step along the way; and what options we have in terms of working closely with funeral directors, without and everything in between. If you have a question, please come along and ask it! This … Read more

Recent Event in Glasgow Big Success

What a powerful day Saturday was at Finn’s Place ! We were so touched by the incredible energy, curiosity and how everyone fully showed up at our first Tending to Death gathering. 25 people in the room. And all participants generously gave so much. I was in awe of the open honesty, the pooling of … Read more

Glasgow Events Coming Up

We are very excited to have two events coming up in Glasgow ༄ Finn’s Place – Sat 4th Nov, 2-4pm ༄ ༄ GalGael – Thurs 9th Nov, 7pm༄ Ever wondered how we tend to those who have died? Ever dreamt of how our communities can weave stories, memories and collective care around death? Come to … Read more

Goodbye to Retiring Trustee

The Board of Trustees wish to extend huge thanks to Lin Carruthers who stood down as Secretary of the charity at the recent AGM. Lin has been a steady hand for the charity in recent years and played a crucial part in creating our online course After the Last Breath – not only writing the … Read more

Feedback from our Demystifying Death Tour

We are back and delighted with the feedback we have received from our demystifying death tour…. “I just wanted to drop you an email to thank you both for such a interesting – and funny! – evening last Wednesday. Your relaxed and informal but also very informative style of communication was perfect for us, and … Read more

Time to Go Home

A daisy on a train! Not something you see everyday! This is a symbol of our fantastic week where we travelled around Scotland on our Demystifying Death Tour. We met lots of amazing people and got to talk about new book, Slow Down When Someone Dies written by Kate Clark and Lin Carruthers. It’s been … Read more

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Slow Down When Someone Dies

by Lin Carruthers and Kate Clark

Do the lights go out when someone dies? Are you in the dark about what to do when a person takes their last breath? This life-affirming guide encourages and enables you to explore the options for everyone involved.

It is currently available in paperback and eBook format. It is also available as a pdf by donation from

We are working on making it available in local bookshops in June 2023.

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This module explores an approach to preparing for your Daisy Days which takes account of yourself and also those central to your life. It covers who can legally make arrangements for you, how to begin, the influences on decisions, explorative conversations, and gives step-by-step guidance to write your “After My Last Breath” letter.

You will receive a link to:

  • watch the module video (approx 30 mins)
  • download the video transcript
  • download an illuminating exercise
  • access other useful resources.

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